So here is my challenge for you this week (and forever): Be completely UNrealistic and start creating new possibilities for yourself. Free yourself of what people expect, and do what you like!
I hear people (including myself), saying "I can't do this because...", or "I wish I could do such and such, but I just don't have the money" etc. etc. SO I say change it up! Let's say to ourselves "What can I do today to have the feeling of what I want? What will give me the feeling of having what I want in a different way?"
Here is a small example: I really want to be in the woods today, but to be honest it's freezing outside and I don't have a car to get out of the city... So I will go to the botanical gardens which is inside a huge glass dome greenhouse with trees and beautiful flowers!
Here's another little example: I really want to build my own house and grow a big garden with a pond, making it so beautiful that it will feel like living in a dream, but I don't have any money right now... So I made it absolutely beautiful in the apartment that I rent, with colourful tapestries on the walls, paintings, photographs, a fountain and tons of plants! It looks like a jungle in here and I love it. I get the feeling of a home right now without having the funds to buy property and build. I still have every intention of building it, and I do have some money coming to me from the accident I was in, so I feel good about what I have right now.
If it's love you are looking for, LOVE YOURSELF! Create the feeling of being in love and you will draw it to you. And if there are people in your life that hold you down, let them go.
Don't just drop an idea. Make it happen in some way that you might not have thought of, and you will feel great for making it happen! There is always a way!
Have a beautiful day everyone, and don't let anything get in your way :)